I'm really struggling to cope at the moment. I've had health anxiety for over a decade (had several types of counselling and currently in counselling at the moment also).
This winter my family of 4 have just had a horrendous run of constant illnesses and it's having a bad toll on my mental health.
On Boxing day my son tested positive for covid, over the next 2wks into January the rest of us become sick one after the other, we all tested negative for some reason but exact same symptoms as my son.
First week of February I became unwell with my IBS causing a fecal impaction and ended up in a&e (my biggest fear/phobia), I was ill for over a week during the disimpaction regime and tbh haven't fully been right since with my IBS. My foster daughter then caught a chest infection around this same time which required an antibiotic, one by one each of all came down with this chest infection throughout February. The 1st week of March my son who had only been feeling better for about a week but still had a lingering cough, then took sick with what we thought was a stomach bug but he ended up in hospital with dehydration and they admitted him for 4 days as his liver enzymes were off the charts, so we've been dealing with blood tests, ultrasounds, stool samples etc. no sooner was my son discharged than my daughter became constipated having stomach aches/nausea and got a sinus infection and had another trip to GP and another antibiotic, this was last week and now for the last 2 days my husband is bunged up with the cold and I'm just waiting for that to spread round the rest of us next.
I'm sorry this is so long winded but with my health anxiety this is just 3 months straight of constant worry, anxiety, lack of sleep and a few panic attacks thrown in. I am not coping with how constant this all is. I feel like the universe is out to get us. The kids are not toddlers they are 9yrs old, we don't share cups, we wash our hands regularly (especially me), when sick we avoid kissing but nothing stops it. I am tired of worrying.
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Constant family sickness taking a big toll on my health anxiety
Nogodsnomasters · 25/03/2024 07:20
Louu247 · 25/03/2024 10:39
I am in the same boat apart from it’s only been me that’s been ill since January I have had 5 different infections and I honestly don’t know what it’s like to feel normal anymore, it’s taking a massive toll on my MH and anxiety.
Eyesopenwideawake · 25/03/2024 10:44
As always it's worth trying to find the source in order to solve the problem. What happened a decade ago?
Nogodsnomasters · 25/03/2024 10:40
I'm sorry you've been so ill and I completely understand how it feels. Do you have health anxiety also?
Louu247 · 25/03/2024 10:39
I am in the same boat apart from it’s only been me that’s been ill since January I have had 5 different infections and I honestly don’t know what it’s like to feel normal anymore, it’s taking a massive toll on my MH and anxiety.
Nogodsnomasters · 25/03/2024 10:47
I think we've possibly had this conversation under a different post of mine before lol. I'm aware of the source, mum and sisters illnesses and subsequent deaths. I also have PTSD from the actual event of my sister dying in my arms. I've had counselling several times to uncover all this and currently in counselling right now just to deal with stress management. So unfortunately I'm aware of the cause but it doesn't stop the triggers from triggering me.
Eyesopenwideawake · 25/03/2024 10:44
As always it's worth trying to find the source in order to solve the problem. What happened a decade ago?
Eyesopenwideawake · 25/03/2024 11:48
Oops! Rather than go round in circles would it be OK to DM you?
Nogodsnomasters · 25/03/2024 10:47
I think we've possibly had this conversation under a different post of mine before lol. I'm aware of the source, mum and sisters illnesses and subsequent deaths. I also have PTSD from the actual event of my sister dying in my arms. I've had counselling several times to uncover all this and currently in counselling right now just to deal with stress management. So unfortunately I'm aware of the cause but it doesn't stop the triggers from triggering me.
Eyesopenwideawake · 25/03/2024 10:44
As always it's worth trying to find the source in order to solve the problem. What happened a decade ago?
Louu247 · 25/03/2024 10:53
I do yes.
Nogodsnomasters · 25/03/2024 10:40
I'm sorry you've been so ill and I completely understand how it feels. Do you have health anxiety also?
Louu247 · 25/03/2024 10:39
I am in the same boat apart from it’s only been me that’s been ill since January I have had 5 different infections and I honestly don’t know what it’s like to feel normal anymore, it’s taking a massive toll on my MH and anxiety.
Oxfordherbal · 25/03/2024 12:08
Hi, Sorry to hear you are going through all this. I'm a qualified Master Medicinal Herbalist and it sounds as if all of your gut biomes are out of kilter. This is fixable - I'd suggest you improve what you are eating - eat more fresh fruit and vegetables - especially dark leafy ones - and add keffir yoghurt and saurkraut to your diet. All of these things will improve the gut biome, which will in turn improve immunity and mood for all of you. I really hear how difficult it is for you, but try and get some outside time (I know the weather has been awful) but being in nature gives you a different perspective on how you are feeling. To get your bowel moving, you can soak flaxseed in water overnight and then add the flaxseed and the goo to yoghurt or smoothies. You can make lots of really amazing changes to your health by making small changes in your diet. Hang in there. 😍
Nogodsnomasters · 25/03/2024 15:24
Then it's been doubly hard. I think the illnesses themselves are hard enough but then throw on the worry and fear and physical symptoms of anxiety just makes the whole thing worse. We are suffering twice because of our minds. It's horrible.
Louu247 · 25/03/2024 10:53
I do yes.
Nogodsnomasters · 25/03/2024 10:40
I'm sorry you've been so ill and I completely understand how it feels. Do you have health anxiety also?
Louu247 · 25/03/2024 10:39
I am in the same boat apart from it’s only been me that’s been ill since January I have had 5 different infections and I honestly don’t know what it’s like to feel normal anymore, it’s taking a massive toll on my MH and anxiety.
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