Been to a traditional boxing day party with elderly FIL and Father.
There were a range of children there aged between 10 and 15. Elderly FIL insisted on games more geared to 5 year olds (pin the tail on the donkey, cracker pulling competitions etc) with chocolate rewards
OK it was Christmas and I guess the above could be described as traditional party games
but I noticed there was no real attempt to address the children as young adults.
Is it common for the elderly to have an arrested perception of grand children aging and a lack of comprehension of the concept of a teenager? It s as if the GC are fixed in my elderly relatives minds as being 6abd they can't relate to them at another level.
Elderly parents
Do the elderly routinely infantalise children/teenagers?
mids2019 · 27/12/2023 16:58
Soontobe60 · 27/12/2023 17:28
I think it’s sweet! I also think the race to ‘adult’ children and young teens is wrong. My DC and their cousins loved spending time with their grandparents doing all sorts of child-like activities, even into their late teens/early 20s. I’m pretty certain they’d have buried their DGF at the beach using the bucket and spades, but they would have laughed whilst doing so.
TiredOfSayingItAgain · 27/12/2023 17:35
I'm in my 60s, and whilst I think TikTok and Instagram are shit (my eldest GC is 12 and looks at them), I do have proper conversations with my GCs, and play age-appropriate games (DrawKing, Monopoly, chess, Scrabble) with them. I might be elderly but I'm definitely not senile.
TiredOfSayingItAgain · 27/12/2023 17:36
A GP told me that 65 is the age when a person is classed as medically elderly. I've got a few months to go......
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TiredOfSayingItAgain · 27/12/2023 17:36
A GP told me that 65 is the age when a person is classed as medically elderly. I've got a few months to go......
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