I'm not sure what I'm asking, just need a rant I think. My elderly dad has been in hospital all week, I'm the only relative around who can help, sibling lives abroad. I also have a two year old and am 8 months pregnant. I feel I need to be in hospital every day, as he's pretty deaf and nothing seems to get done if I'm not there. Consultants, etc just mumble at the end of the bed, and it's only when I'm there asking questions, finding out what the treatment is, when discharge is likely, etc that progress is made - it's so frustrating. I feel so sorry for patients who don't have a relative to stand up for them. On the other hand, I've been in hospital every day this week, and I'm exhausted, I'm supposed to be enjoying maternity leave, and I think my toddler feels ignored - and that's even before the new baby arrives! Toddler at nursery today and I just want to sleep all day, but feel I need to go and support dad too!
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