The way I read your comment, bialystockandbloom -
"is that like when parents describe their 3yos as "spirited" ?"
is you suggesting that "sociable" is not to be taken at face value: "spirited" very much is seen as a euphemism for "misbehaving/difficult", for example (as I think you know, or it would be a strange comment to make - especially with a
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I can only conclude you're insinuating that "sociable" is a polite way of saying Alleyn's kids are in some way overly social. I can't think how. My ds's friends of both sexes in the senior school seem well-adjusted and yes, enjoy parties, but certainly not to excess! And while there are, of course, some loud and opinionated kids in the mix, no more than other local schools, I don't think. I just felt you were a little harsh, that's all.
As for the movement question, ds has mentioned several girls across the years who have come in from JAGS. And not particularly confident ones, either. I'd be interested to see if it's a two way thing. It seems to me just one more way to help Poodilicious making her decision about where to apply/what might suit her dd/how settled pupils are in each school.
Good luck, Poodilicious: they are both fantastic schools in their own way, and inspire great loyalty, as you can tell!