Ds is a friendly little boy and apart from the odd falling out incident has never had any real trouble at school. However, recently some new pupils have joined his class (he is 9 btw), from another school in the area. Now suddenly he's coming home upset. Ds has dyspraxia (we think, its not been diagnosed "officially" as such but he has seen occupational therapists and special needs teachers for years who are convinced of this). He does exhibit some behaviour at times that other children may see as unusual, nothing major but a tendency to be in his own little world, forgetfulness etc. It seems that the way he is, although accepted by the other children he's known since reception has made him a target for these new kids. There is no violence as yet, but threats of violence and hurtful name calling. I telephoned his teacher and explained the situation yet felt as though i wasn't "believed". His teacher remarked that he seemed "cheerful enough" and that he hadn't "noticed" anything but assured me that he would make enquiries. Today ds came back from school and told me that his teacher hadn't had a word with him, or the other kids and that the name calling had continued as normal.
Perhaps i'm overreacting but i attended the same school and was bullied also. I told my teacher at the time what was happening but she didn't listen to a word i said, i can only assume this was as the two girls who were bullying me were the best students they had, came from well off families etc etc and didn't seem to fit the image of a bully. The kids who are picking on ds wait until he retaliates (just telling them to "shut up" i think) and then they tell the teacher he is disrupting them and ds gets told off.
It's early days but this has been going on for a while ds tells me, and the new children seem to have "recruited" some of his classmates and former friends into their little gang, at present there are about 7 kids picking on him. He's a very sensitive little boy and i'm sure that insults such as telling him he's "thick" and a "weirdo" (amongst many others) are going to further affect his work (which he struggles with anyway). Possibly, these are the worst insults they could throw at him considering the difficulties he has.
I'm starting to fume about this. Ds is scared of his own shadow and doesnt tell lies, he's never been in any trouble at school and reports always mention how polite and well behaved he is. So why is his teacher believing these other children over him? especially when I'M the parent ringing up complaining.
So if it turns out they arent taking me seriously what should i do next?
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Not sure the school are listening to me but ds is being bullied.....
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karen288 · 11/01/2007 17:40
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