Hello, its my first time on here so please be kind...!
I have a dilemma which I am looking for advice with please.....me and my OH have decided to move around 1.5hrs away to the South Manchester area with my 2 children (DS age 11/DD age 8) from a previous relationship. I am really looking forward to moving as it will be a fresh start and will give me the chance to be a stay at home mum for a while whilst the children settle into their new schools etc BUT......we haven't told the children yet and we're so scared of what their reaction will be!
The reason we are moving is so that my OH will be nearer to the office in Manchester (it is his own business which requires fairly long hours/travel etc)
It is a huge thing to move the 2 children away from everything that is familiar, away from their friends, family (my parents currently see them every day as they pick them up from school whilst I work full time) and everything they know! They will also be about 1.5hrs away from their dad (my ex husband) who they see every other weekend - although this arrangement wouldn't change I am worried they will just 'feel' far away from him.
Does anyone have any experience of moving children of this age to new areas/schools that can give me any advice on how to tell them etc??
They are very sociable children that make friends easily, they do well at school and are involved in various football, dancing, swimming clubs etc. I know they would fit in and make new friends so in the long run we aren't worried about them, it is just dealing with the short term 'shock' of telling them and the huge change for them.
thanks and sorry to rabbit on a bit....as you can tell, we are worried about this and would appreciate any advice!!
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SausageDogGeorge · 10/10/2013 10:18
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