Hi :) My DS (yr 2)took the entrance exam for a scholarship to independent school on Thursday. I made the decision to give it a try because he is on the g&t register at his school for maths and has a reading age of 11 but they don't seem to be extending him at his state primary. Part of me really hopes he gets in as I really feel the independent school would stretch him and keep him interested as well as providing excellent sporting and extra curricular opportunities. The class sizes are 15 as opposed to 30 and the children there are so well mannered. My DS held a door open for me when I arrived to pick him up from the exam and he has never done that!
On the other hand I worry about him being the poor kid in the rich school. We live in a little semi and have been on income support since my DH left and I had to leave nursing. I don't know how many extras there will be if he goes to the school. Not getting free school meals any more will be a struggle in itself, as well as the extra fuel for the car to go the extra 10 miles a day.
My DD starts primary next year and I also worry whether she would feel left out if she was unable to get into the independant school when she is older, or whether I should just treat them both individually on their own merit.
Sorry for such a long message, and it is pie in the sky at the moment as we are still waiting to see if he gets an offer. Has anyone been in the same situation that could ease my worries?
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Pro's and Con's of switch from state primary to independant.
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island81 · 21/11/2010 11:02
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