So I'm in my mid 20s and thinking about having a baby by myself. I'm a gay woman so having a baby would always lead me down a path of IVF/IUI anyway but love been thinking about whether I should do it by myself without a partner.
I own my home and will be mortgage free by the end of the year, I have a reliable car, a good career with an income of approximately £32k which will go up in September and again every year following that for the next 4 years. I own three very loving cats and have a fantastic support network of family and friends.
I'm not concerned about being able to afford the treatments due to savings but I'd like to hear from mum's who have gone on this journey by themselves and any advice they have.
I wouldn't be looking to begin until I'm fully qualified at work which would be sometime next year and of course I do not want to make a rash decision. There are many pros and cons I can think of regarding doing this without a partner but the main one being that I can provide a good, loving life for a baby.
I'd love to hear other's stories 😊
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loading24 · 02/07/2023 22:29
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