Hi there
Two things I’ve been thinking of posting for advice so have cobbled them together.
Firstly and most importantly, we told our 4 year old (also have a 20 month old) that daddy would be morning to new house soon a couple of weeks ago.
STBXH has completed on house and we wanted DS to have some ownership of new bedroom, see journey of house being transformed etc. We think it will be a few weeks before he goes. DS was picking up on things being said about new house and was unsettled.
Since we told him he has been having extreme angry outbursts, mostly with me. Really looking for some advice to help him. I’ve tried reassuring and talking about the future. I’m hoping it all moves soon and helps him move on. But… he is obviously hurting so much. He doesn’t talk about it, not a great talker generally.
Considering a play therapist. Any advice appreciated.
Secondly… wondering about logistics of clothes and favourite teddies / toys across two houses. I’ve rebought a few of their favourite toys so they will have both…
What do people do about clothes & teddies?
Thanks in advance.
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RedLeicesterRedLeicester · 12/04/2024 21:10
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