Would anyone have experience in navigating this..... Basically I have separated from DH. This has been on the cards for a while, without going into it, so I asked him to leave. In this time, almost two months he has seen his teen/tween twice. No texts, phonecalls, nothing now from him. I have tried texting on various occasions about the kids or meeting up to talk over our situation, I have been ignored every time. I don't get how you can be so distant with your kids, my tween is up and down with the whole situation and won't text him as says it now feels awkward. I texted DH the first time he went silent to express how it will have a lasting affect on them both and I don't feel I should have to encourage him, this time, to make contact with them. Surely this should be a natural reaction from a dad to want to see his kids. I'm telling them your dad loves you and he just has stuff to sort out but his actions are starting to make me think, he doesn't care that much. Might I add I have been told from family, he is working during the week, then drinking and being very sociable on the weekends. I have felt sadness, fear, immense guilt, relief and grief from the breakup but now I'm just feeling anger towards his selfishness. Any advice, always appreciated.
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