I have been with my ex husband for a total of 27 years. We have children. We had a good marriage for about 15 years then we when through a period of separation. Being that we have children we co parent. My husband would tell me how much he misses me and needs to be with me sexually. I still love him very much and misses our family unit and making love to him. My husband says it hurts him too much the thought of me being with another man. We have sex on a regular basis, but I know he has had girlfriends throughout the last several years. But he will not tell me about it. The problem is I can’t stop sleeping with him. Even when I say that I am not going to do it. He will always come in my house and great me with a kiss in my mouth and start rubbing on my body. He loves kissing and grabbing on my breasts and eventually I give in and have sex with him. I think we will be together forever. I have talked to other ex wives that say they still sleep with their ex husbands from time to time. But my ex has sex with me weekly. He also wants to know where I am going and who I talk to. I am not in his business or trying to see his girlfriend. If I tell him no, I am not going to give him sex , he gets upset and ask me have I met someone new. Which I have not. I can’t have a new relationship because me and my ex husband are so sexually active together and I am still in love with him. I don’t know if we should get back together or I should just avoid him all together and have a mediator for our children so we don’t have to see each other. Because if I am around him I will eventually give in to him.
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ThePeachAnt · 09/04/2024 20:01
I have been with my ex husband for a total of 27 years. We have children. We had a good marriage for about 15 years then we when through a period of separation. Being that we have children we co parent. My husband would tell me how much he misses me and needs to be with me sexually. I still love him very much and misses our family unit and making love to him. My husband says it hurts him too much the thought of me being with another man. We have sex on a regular basis, but I know he has had girlfriends throughout the last several years. But he will not tell me about it. The problem is I can’t stop sleeping with him. Even when I say that I am not going to do it. He will always come in my house and great me with a kiss in my mouth and start rubbing on my body. He loves kissing and grabbing on my breasts and eventually I give in and have sex with him. I think we will be together forever. I have talked to other ex wives that say they still sleep with their ex husbands from time to time. But my ex has sex with me weekly. He also wants to know where I am going and who I talk to. I am not in his business or trying to see his girlfriend. If I tell him no, I am not going to give him sex , he gets upset and ask me have I met someone new. Which I have not. I can’t have a new relationship because me and my ex husband are so sexually active together and I am still in love with him. I don’t know if we should get back together or I should just avoid him all together and have a mediator for our children so we don’t have to see each other. Because if I am around him I will eventually give in to him.
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