Morning Ladies -wish this site had been around when kids were small -think you're all brilliant! Ex military wife,57, 2 grownup kids. I have left some fantastic jobs as moved every 18 mo etc. Battled aggressive Non Hodgkins Lymphoma for 8 yrs then husb retired and 'left' 3 yrs ago, now with new lady after our 16 yr marriage. No assets at all. He earns £36K + £14K pension which will be £24K + infl in 6 yrs. Has been giving me £12K til recently, now reduced to 800 p.m. I am in pretty poor health after 6 yrs of constant chemo and life expectancy is seriously reduced - perhaps another 6 yrs? Consultant is insistent the cancer will be back and have run out of options. Scrabble around doing odd jobs and have my own RN pension of 159 p.m. My rent is 600p.m. & regular bills of 200 before I eat. Am I unreasonable to ask for £12K pa? Husb is GP, 49 yrs old and capable of earning huge amounts. There seems to be NO set scale and I daren't start borrowing money for solicitors to write letters. I believe I am entitled to nearly half his military pension but he won't get it back when I die so I don't want to wrest if from him if at all possible. Many thanks for any input
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