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Meeting one person new rule does that include kids?

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Lifestooshort1542 · 31/10/2020 21:47

So with the new lockdown rules from Thursday it says you can meet one other person who is from another household outdoors, does that mean I can meet with my DS another person with her DS? 🤦🏻‍♀️

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RonaLisa · 02/11/2020 20:48

What a great thread.

OP asks a reasonable question.

Lots of Covid-lovers pile in to say that a pre-schooler is a person too, and PEOPLE WILL DIE if two mums of pre-schoolers meet up.

Nadine Dorries says it's ok.

The Covid-lovers say it's ok.

In fact, applying a very tiny bit of common sense would have given them the answer that Nadine Dorries then provided. But no: it's not enough to work that out for yourself. You have to wait for the Big Authority to tell you that something is ok when it's patently ok anyway.

As for @StaffAssociationRepresentative's posts: these #mad #hashtags are a salutary reminder that you have no idea what oddball person might be behind a keyboard on any public forum.

It's weird, the way that the internet confers equal validity on any opinion, however loopy.

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MrsFezziwig · 01/11/2020 21:08

I wonder where all the “is your child a person?” rude posters are now?

I was one of them. OP I wholeheartedly apologise!

@Dongdingdong that’s very good of you to apologise (and personally I couldn’t care less if OP takes ten babies to the park) but the guidelines have actually been amended, exceptions weren’t included in the initial guidance (presumably because most Cabinet members have nannies who take their babies to the park so they can’t imagine it would be a problem for anyone).

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Clearasmuddypuddles · 01/11/2020 20:54

Children under school age do not count when meeting a single person from another household in an outdoor space as listed in the document below.

Meeting one person new rule does that include kids?
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PersicariaBistortaSuperba · 01/11/2020 20:49

@dongdingdong and @Sitt This was my first (and last time) reading a coronavirus thread. I shall know to steer clear next time, too anxiety inducing! But just wanted to say your exchange upthread restored my faith in humanity.

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Sitt · 01/11/2020 20:39

This is within the rules

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StaffAssociationRepresentative · 01/11/2020 19:54

[quote dryoldparty]@StaffAssociationRepresentative you represent every hysterical lockdown craving old bastard on every Facebook group going.

I'm not following the rules, isolation away from mum almost buried me last time. I will see my parents with the children. If schools and universities can carry on, I'm seeing my parents. I'm on mat leave and they are both retired. The "risk" of viral spread is absolutely not there. To fuck am I doing a number on my mental health to #savechristmas for you. [/quote]
Thank you for your opinion

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Woui · 01/11/2020 19:45

Native Dorries has tweeted saying under school age kids don't count.

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dryoldparty · 01/11/2020 19:25

@StaffAssociationRepresentative you represent every hysterical lockdown craving old bastard on every Facebook group going.

I'm not following the rules, isolation away from mum almost buried me last time. I will see my parents with the children. If schools and universities can carry on, I'm seeing my parents. I'm on mat leave and they are both retired. The "risk" of viral spread is absolutely not there. To fuck am I doing a number on my mental health to #savechristmas for you.

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SorrelBlackbeak · 01/11/2020 19:15

Why the hashtags? Weird.

I'm sure the op will be following the clarified rules which make it clear she can take her pre-school child and meet up with a friend and her pre-school child.

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StaffAssociationRepresentative · 01/11/2020 19:00

Just follow the bloody rules! We will have an extended lockdown as we seem to have posters who like JacK Sparrow think rules are more like guidelines, not for the likes of them to follow but others have to.

If schools get closed because you lots can’t be arsed to follow rules I will be bloody annoyed. Stop being so precious....

#followtherules #savechristmas #protectourschools

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Sitt · 01/11/2020 18:56

Fair play to you! :)

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Dongdingdong · 01/11/2020 18:47

I wonder where all the “is your child a person?” rude posters are now?

I was one of them. OP I wholeheartedly apologise!

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Sitt · 01/11/2020 18:10

I wonder where all the “is your child a person?” rude posters are now?

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BogRollBOGOF · 01/11/2020 16:28

@GrumpySausage

It's now being reported in the press that pre school children will be exempt from the 2 person rule.

Mirror and guardian have both ran storied and Nadine Dorries has tweeted it.

Great campaigning from Pregnant and Screwed.

A rare injection of sanity into this shit show.
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Orangeblossom7777 · 01/11/2020 16:26

Hi OP yes it does...

Just seen this online on the news in case helps

Children under school age exempt from some Covid-19 rules, says Health Minister
Health Minister Nadine Dorries has said children under school age who are with their parents will not count towards the limit on two people meeting outside.

Children and adults who are dependent on round-the-clock care, such as those with severe disabilities, will also be included, she added.

Children under school age who are with their parents will not count towards the limit on two people meeting outside. This will mean that a parent can see a friend or family member with their baby or young children.

— Nadine Dorries 🇬🇧#StayAlert (@NadineDorries) November 1, 2020

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Becuna · 01/11/2020 16:24

Really, have people lost their fucking minds? A PP being told her 3 month old baby is counted as a person as far as the rules go and she cannot meet anyone else. Where has common sense gone?
Of course you can meet with another adult outside for a walk and your baby can go as well.

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Bambooble · 01/11/2020 16:05

Yeah apparently if under school age they don't count wahoo!

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GrumpySausage · 01/11/2020 15:53

It's now being reported in the press that pre school children will be exempt from the 2 person rule.

Mirror and guardian have both ran storied and Nadine Dorries has tweeted it.

Great campaigning from Pregnant and Screwed.

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PurpleDaisies · 01/11/2020 14:31

@Ginogineli

One family
One family support group
One individual

Can all meet one person

So one family can meet a gp or one friend

Or one family, a man living alone (support bubble) can all meet one person

Can you point to where it says this in the new guidelines?
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OverTheRubicon · 01/11/2020 14:25

@Ginogineli

One family
One family support group
One individual

Can all meet one person

So one family can meet a gp or one friend

Or one family, a man living alone (support bubble) can all meet one person

No you can't. Because if you, your DH and your 2 DCs met with your friend Betty, you might be meeting with one other person, but she'd be meeting with 4.

It's 2 people, unless you are in a support bubble together.
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Ginogineli · 01/11/2020 13:59

As in all together

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Ginogineli · 01/11/2020 13:59

One family
One family support group
One individual

Can all meet one person

So one family can meet a gp or one friend

Or one family, a man living alone (support bubble) can all meet one person

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MrsFezziwig · 01/11/2020 13:28

Men can go on bike rides with a mate but a mum at home all day with a screaming baby still can't see a friend.

If your DH wants to go for a bike ride with a mate rather than parent his children, that’s something you need to address, not insult older people who may not be seeing anyone day in day out.

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MrsFezziwig · 01/11/2020 13:20

PurpleDaisies
Where does it say in the guidelines it’s for people living alone? (referring to one person meeting another person outside)
There's a whole bit on it which you would have seen if you'd bothered to read them.

@crazyfrogs please could you refer me to the part where it says meeting in twos only applies to people living alone? I thought I’d read all the guidelines but didn’t see this.

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RonaLisa · 01/11/2020 12:53

@Ecosse

I see were already back to the mumsnet ‘rules’ where you’re only allowed 1 15 minute walk per week and bread and milk are not essentials.

The actual rules state that you can meet one other person in a park or public space, not just for exercise. The risk outdoors is absolutely minimal in any event.

You can exercise or visit outdoor public places with the people you live with, your support bubble, or 1 person from another household.

Outdoor public places include:

parks, beaches, countryside,
public gardens (whether or not you pay to enter them), allotments
playgrounds

Has anyone said "JUST STAY THE FUCK AT HOME" yet?

I'm not RTFT because I can't bear the rudeness.
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