Oh my goodness surely there must be someone else out there going through this same awful thing? We're trying for our first baby, instigated by me I have to say, I'm 33 and my husband is 45. The problem is when I say 'trying' there always seems to be an excuse not to have sex during my fertile period (and it's not me going on about it he knows when it is honest!) when i raise it (if only I could!) he says he feels pressured to perform and i just don't know what to do, am gradually getting more and more upset abut it and can't talk to him because surely that will heap on more pressure. Had a miscarriage a month ago in very early stages of pregnancy so this hasn't helped. He assures me he wants a child but all the actions seem as though he doesn't. Help please...advice very welcome
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