1 dpo today - anyone with me??

[weathervane123]

Title says it all really! 1 dpo today and feeling a bit down and tired already! Not looking forward to the next two weeks. Have had three losses in six months this year so getting a bfp is only the first hurdle. Trying to stay positive but for some reason I feel like this month we didn’t have sex enough.

[Peonies94]

@Bell024 nope nothing! Cycle day 40 now! Arghh! So fed up! Ahh no, sending love! It’s horrible isn’t it!

[Bell024]

@Peonies94 hi, I was just wondering how u doing? Have u got ur period?
Mine is 4 days late . Had bleeding in 9dpo after sex . Wasn't few drops. Had to wipe a few times . 🥴
Af was supposed to come on 24 th . Since that nothing . Only cramps and ewcm 😖 did several tests, blue dye ones were positives, digital said not pregnant. Pink dye was negativ . Was thinking that could it be my first jab what I got the beginning of Nov?!
This whole situation is killing me. Also feel sick . Sore throat, body pain, blocked nose. Just want my period 🥺😢😢

[Peonies94]

@Bell024 neither! I have really long cycles so I’m not even sure I’ve ovulated yet, no idea what happened! I had positive OPKs too, but I also had the two positive tests! I’ve tested loads since and definitely BFN but no period yet!🤷‍♀️

[Bell024]

@Peonies94 hey girl, how are you? Was just thinking about you. Have you got your period? Or you ended being pregnant? X

[Peonies94]

@Bell024 yes, tested again the following morning on same tests, and then in the evening on FRER both negative! Not sure what happened there!

[Bell024]

@Peonies94 yes I definitely see another line. Have u tested today?

[Peonies94]

@Bell024ahh sending hugs! I’m currently frantic and no idea what’s going on with my body! Just had these results! I see a really faint line, Im 10 DPO! I used a different stick test and had negative but then had these two and I definitely see something, so confused!

[Bell024]

@weathervane123 what's up with u? Hope u r doing well.

[Bell024]

Hi @Peonies94 sorry to reply now. I've been very busy lately. Yes I am in Tww , dpo 8 . But as I said I gave up on it, just got really tired of it after a year. 🤷‍♀️ how are you doing? Have u got any symptoms?

[Peonies94]

@Bell024 sorry to hear about chemical! Are you in your TWW now? Well I’ve always had long irregular cycles but always 35 days +! This cycle I had peak at CD15, which isn’t usual for me and no EWCM well a tiny amount the day after peak, but hardly anything! I’m now 5DPO according to OPKs only (roughly) but just had a almost peak reading again! 1.6 today but 1.8 on my peak! I’m so confused! I’ll DTD today hopefully just I case, but I don’t think I’ll be able to maintain it, if this is another peak and actual O! I might just have to cover today and Monday and hope for the best, my DH struggles after our peak, especially as we are trying SMEP so only stopped 2 days ago!

[Bell024]

@Peonies94
Hey!I had chemical last month 🤷‍♀️ I'm not really trying anymore we didn have much bd this month, but seems to be accidently it was all in my fertile window 😅 what about u?

[Peonies94]

How’s everyone? Hope your all well those who got positives in October?☺️ Anyone who didn’t, how is this months cycles going for you?☺️

[Cruz86]

I really wish you all the best for this cycle @MaybeBabyAli ❤️

[MaybeBabyAli]

@Cruz86 I used the clear blue early for both BFP before bleeding and BFN a day after it started. I used a cheapie dip test this morning and got nothing. My usual period is horror movie level for a day or two and then it’s manageable for two and then a bit of spotting. This time went straight to the two day manageable. Nothing really since about midday yesterday. I’m not getting my hopes up that it was an overly voluminous implantation bleed given the BFP before and the negative now. Especially because I had some wine over the weekend to help cheer
myself up! Just to be sure, I’ll test with cheapies for a few more days as AF was due tomorrow. If not then I’m a few days into the next cycle so can try again. Third time lucky 🤞🏼

[Cruz86]

I'm glad you managed to keep busy @MaybeBabyAli. What test did you use when it was bfn? And you say it's not normal to have a 2 day period? Was it heavy?

[MaybeBabyAli]

@weathervane123 that’s great progress!! Really lovely to see 😁

I saw friends this weekend which helped take my mind off everything. I stopped bleeding today which is odd. Never had a two day period but it can’t have been implantation bleeding as I already had a BFP and then a BFN. So confused! I guess only time will tell…

[Cruz86]

Hi @weathervane123! I think you're right on the cusp of conceiving 2 weeks ago so it's obviously a good sign that your hcg is riding well! I'm not going to do a digital until the end of next week when I'll hopefully see 3+. What's the furthest you've got with pregnancy before? Will you be having an early scan? I also only have mildly sore boobs and apart from that, it's just a lot of cramping and a bad lower back! I feel a bit nauseous after eating but nothing I can class as nausea!!

Ahh @ExcitedtoTry, you've still got time 🤞🏻🤞🏻

[weathervane123]

It doesn't feel real tbh. I still don't have symptoms beyond mildly sore boobs that I could easily put down to the progesterone suppositories I'm taking now. I've had much more pronounced symptoms with weaker tests! I'll test again in a week and see where I'm at.

8dpo is really early! Good luck and keep us posted! x

[ExcitedtoTry]

Wow! That is a wonderful sight. I understand your worries. It must feel like another wait. I hope your mind can settle and enjoy it soon.

I took an early detection test this afternoon & it was neg :( I’m only 8DPO so early days but still disappointing to see nothing.

My boobs are so achy today but could be PMT. Planing to retest in a couple of days & first thing. Keeping my fingers crossed.

[weathervane123]

Hi ladies! How is everyone doing today?

I’m a bit surprised by my digi. 12dpo today and I was tracking ovulation closely so I definitely didn’t miss it. Never had a 2-3 weeks this early. It’s made me hopeful but I’m worried that’s silly this early.

[Peonies94]

@Cruz86 ahh that’s good to know! Thank you ☺️Hopefully it’ll not cause any problem then!

[weathervane123]

Who knows! I keep getting pregnant so there hasn't been much opportunity to test me, but even the recurrent miscarriage clinic hasn't bothered to do anything but do a thrombophilia screen (clotting disorders). I'm waiting on the results of follow up tests now, but everything there was fine first time.

It sounds like good news that your spotting has eased up. I wonder if Covid wasn't to blame there a bit there? Illness can definitely mess with cycles I think. I'd say put your feet up and treat yourself!

[Cruz86]

Well done to your consultant!! I wonder if they'll test your progesterone or just keep you on them regardless @weathervane123? I hope that is the case! I am very tired but I'm also just getting over Covid so who knows 🤷🏼‍♀️

[weathervane123]

@Cruz86 I've got them because of the losses. My consultant pulled rank and made my GP give them to me. Lol. I'm actually running out so I have to run that gauntlet again. Sigh.

I don't think I'd have any symptoms either were it not for the dose of progesterone last night. Have you tested again since Thurs? I don't think lack of symptoms is a necessarily bad sign (this is what Google tells me anyway!). It's when you've had them and lost them all, AND your lines are lighter, that it's maybe concerning.

[Cruz86]

Morning @weathervane123! My last bit of spotting was yesterday morning, touch wood. Did your gp sort out the suppositories? My gp said it's not something they do so I didn't have much luck yesterday 😩 fancy posting some to me? 😂 I don't really have any symptoms to be honest which is quite worrying.