star great news about the SA! Re: timed intercourse, given low-ish count I would ask your clinic for advice, normally eod in the days leading up to trigger in the absence of male factor, potentially every 3 days with low count. I was told by my Dr to cover off approx +24h and +36h post trigger (i.e. the day after trigger, and again the next morning). However we don’t have any male factor issues and your clinic may advise otherwise
You don’t want to start AFTER trigger as that’s the LH surge so you’ll ovulate approx 36-37h post trigger, and the egg only lives for about 12h. You want to start before to get the swimmers ready, and then immediately post trigger (within 36h) is the most important shag
sammy hugs. Can’t the baby bombs just FUCK THE FUCK OFF (sorry, potty mouth, but some occasions deserve serious swears). Apparently some people have sex, get pregnant and get a baby 9 months later. When people say how expensive having kids is, I wanna say ‘yeah, try MAKING them’
(all that said, since ‘coming out’ about IVF I have found that loads of FB friends I thought were just smug fertiles with their perfect families also struggled. One had 3 miscarriages in the space of 11 months. One had 5 years of TTC, 7 IUIs, 2 fresh, 2 FET and several miscarriages to get her two kids -I obv just saw two very cute kids and had no idea of her struggle. Another had 2 MMC @ 12 weeks between her first and second kids. You just don’t know)
Your friends don’t sound like they fall into that category though, you’re not a bitch, you’re human. All the hugs.
Itsme the thought of the injections is way worse than the actual doing of them. I didn’t get an injections teach at all - we just watched a YouTube video and stabbed on our first night of stims. You’ll be a pro in no time!
molly and geeup sorry you find yourselves here, but welcome - it’s a fabulous group of very lovely, very knowledgable and very supportive women
Trixie thinking of you lovely. Hope you and DH can do something to be kind to yourselves. Mini break sounds like a terrific idea - I’d say an essential part of the protocol
maple woohoo for appointment coming through! Do ask if you’re going to be monitored on Clomid. Some trusts have a nasty habit of just giving out Clomid without scans and just doing progesterone blood tests to see if you’ve ovulated or not. Push for scans, because you
a) need to know if the Clomid is making you over-respond, and risking multiples
b) if it’s making you ovulate but thinning your lining, and thus simultaneously ‘working’ but making it impossible to conceive if nothing can implant (less common but possible)
Mpp hope you don’t see this and are having a fab honeymoon!
lucie hope you had a lovely weekend away and a nice break with DH
So, after two nerve wracking days of waiting for calls, the final tally is in for our embryos
We have a grand total of 12 blasts for PGS testing!
From this fresh cycle, we ended up with 9 good blasts that were suitable for biopsy and freezing.
Of our 4 frosties, 3 of them were able to be biopsied. Although the fourth did thaw, it didn’t successfully re-expand and progress to hatching blast stage, and therefore wasn’t suitable for biopsy.
Although we won’t ever know for sure, the lab say in general that euploid embryos do generally survive the freeze / thaw process, and those that don’t are generally aneuploid - so it’s likely that this embryo was a dud and just weeded itself out
We’re thrilled with these numbers - now we just have to hope that in two weeks time (yes, another 2ww!) that there are some decent ones in there - and most of all, that there’s one that will be able to go the distance and become a person 9 months later. The FET is what terrifies me, as if we put a PGS tested embryo back and the cycle fails or I miscarry again, it’s all down to my body’s inability to sustain a pregnancy. Even if we get a good seed, if we can’t get the soil right, it’s all for naught. So just really really have to hope my body won’t let another healthy baby down