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How long did it take to conceive?

71 replies

cbmb12 · 18/12/2013 21:32

Hi all - I am brand new here (this is my very first post) and have just decided to start TTC this month.
I am 29, my husband is 31... I was wondering how long it took all of you to get pregnant (if you have managed)?

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Purple37 · 31/12/2013 13:38

1st time 18 months
2nd time once!!!!
3rd time 3 months ( 12 years after the first, mmc at 12 weeks)
4th time- 6 months after mc just found out yesterday so fingers crossed

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KatAndKit · 30/12/2013 18:19

Pg 1, not actively trying, miscarriage
pg 2, 8 months, another miscarriage
pg 3, 3 months, successful
pg 4, 1 month, so far so good. I am now 35, was 32 when i conceived the first time.

obviously i was unlucky with the losses but i was lucky with never taking a year or more to conceive. Anything within six months is really good and even up to a year is normal.

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Onelittlebugbear · 30/12/2013 18:12

Ds first cycle (I was 28)
Now I'm 31 and been trying for dc2 for 14 months. Moving ahead with ivf in January as dh has no normal shaped sperm. God knows how we managed to get pregnant with ds first cycle.

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FizzyFeet · 30/12/2013 12:03

MC 1: 6 months
MC 2 (ectopic): 6 months
MC 3 (ectopic): 18 months
Just had first round of ivf. 3 years in total; I'm 33.

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lj123 · 29/12/2013 22:07

I'm 24 and it's taken me 3 years with 4MC and an ectopic, I'm currently 6 weeks and 2 days with everything crossed! Wink

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Skogkatter · 29/12/2013 22:06

And MC1- 6mnths
MC2- 2yrs1mnth
MC3- 10mnths
MC5- 1yr2mntha
MC6- 2yrs4mnths

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Skogkatter · 29/12/2013 22:04

DS1- 2yrs4mnths
DS2- 3yrs
DS3- 9mnths
DS4- 3yrs1mnth

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MrsPear · 29/12/2013 21:11

I seem to fall pregnant very easily BUT I also have trouble when pregnant. I have two children out of seven pregnancies and both my boys born very prem - 10 and 9 weeks. I am now stopping and counting myself very lucky.

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OrangeFizz99 · 29/12/2013 21:05

As in I am on cycle number three of ttc dc3

May have cursed this go now!

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OrangeFizz99 · 29/12/2013 21:04

Dd1 - pretty much straight away
Dd2 - 4/5 cycles
Dc3 - on cycle number three

So, are you pregnant or did af come?

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Audilover · 29/12/2013 20:55

DC1 I was on the pill.
DC2 on a different pill
DC3 on pill.
DC4 dtd once without using any contraception.
DC5 split condom map taken within 24 hours.

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LittleAshy · 29/12/2013 20:50

Hello everyone I'm a complete newby to the site. Just looking for people to share the trying to conceive journey. Been reading all the comments on here and just wondering if someone could explain the abbreviations Loki have no idea what some of them mean well most of them really lol thanks x

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InfiniteJest · 23/12/2013 02:13

1 month, aged 29. DH pretty much just waved his penis in my direction and I got pregnant - very lucky. Good luck OP, and everyone else who is trying!

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cbmb12 · 23/12/2013 01:30

ARG 2ww is killing me!!!!!

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Tikkamasala · 23/12/2013 00:43

1st pregnancy - unplanned surprise while using contraception
Now trying and on cycle 3, so far nothing :( I think I kind of assumed it would happen straight away!

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Skogkat · 22/12/2013 23:17

DS- by accident
DD- 4yrs
DS2- first month
This one cooking- three months (I'm 10wks)

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bugoven · 22/12/2013 22:41

1 yr 8 months, mc @ 6-8wks
2 yrs 1 month so far in total but feeling hopeful for a 2014 baby.

My advice - daydream, get excited, enjoy anticipation and seek medical advice if no luck after a year. Also do your best not to test early and congratulate yourself when you manage this (even 2 years on I rarely do).

Good luck OP =) Xx

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Minion · 22/12/2013 22:26

31, 1 yr and counting :(

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Solaia · 21/12/2013 09:09

We're on cycle 27 and I've just turned 29. I was 26 when we started TTC so assumed youth and health would make it easy!

It's hard to hear about people conceiving by accident or on their first attempt but I've realised that this is my own particular journey and I will travel it wherever it takes me.

Good luck to all TTC Thanks

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NatashaBee · 20/12/2013 19:11

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MrsChristmasBungle · 20/12/2013 18:57

I wasn't trying the first time age 30
Second time I got pregnant the first month age 33

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Incapinka · 20/12/2013 18:55

6 months each time

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wonderstuff · 20/12/2013 18:54

Pg 1 - a month, mc (I was 25)
Pg 2 - 3 years, dd is now 6 (I was 28)
Pg 3 - unplanned, ds is now 3 (i was 31)

I really recommend 'taking charge of your fertility' www.amazon.co.uk/Taking-Charge-Your-Fertility-Reproductive/dp/0091887585?tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-21

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givemeaclue · 20/12/2013 18:49

Op are you having fertility treatment?

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givemeaclue · 20/12/2013 18:47

5 years.4 x ivf

Good luck!

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