My lovely friend’s partner had a devastating diagnosis a couple of months and has been in hospital since and will be for the foreseeable future. He is making progress but life will not be the same for either of them again.
ive been trying to support my friend- texts, cards, little gifts in the post to cheer her up. It’s difficult because of my job, her visiting hours and out physical locations to see her often.
This Christmas is invisibly going to be hard. She won’t be on her own- she will have some close friend around her. She has said in passing to me that she’s not doing Xmas presents this year- totally understandable.
However, I’d like to do something for her that shows I’m thinking of her. I don’t want a plant, flowers, chocs etc as I’ve already done that. Any ideas for something thoughtful I could do? (Also don’t want her to feel bad that she has not bought me anything- but I totally don’t want or expect anything given the circumstances and don’t give to receive any how).
Please help!
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Ideas for a friend in a difficult situation this Xmas
Fayrazzled · 03/12/2022 11:36
Newwardrobe · 03/12/2022 13:40
Did she mean she doesn't want Christmas presents either, because I wouldn't want to buy her something if it'll make her feel bad.
Soproudoflionesses · 03/12/2022 13:45
Would she fancy a nice lunch out with you - a little break for a couple of hours?
Starlightstarbright1 · 03/12/2022 13:43
Is she struggling financially a voucher like asda ? She could buy useful or practical or treat then ,
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