What advice can you give to a mum of a DS aged 4 who soils and wets his pants up to 2/3 times a day and has now decided lately to not eat at meal times claiming to be tired or he has had enough?
Back story:
He has been on movicol for a year because from the age of 2 he has held onto his poo and refused to relieve himself.
He takes 1 sachet a day which for months has worked.
His toilet trips are 1/2 times a week.
His poos are 'perfectly' formed but are extremely long (Suspect elongation of the colon).
The issues:
Last few weeks he has been very obviously holding his poos more and more (red faced, hiding, sitting awkwardly to keep it in).
Pants are soiled. not skid marks but lumps of poo.
Claims he doesn't know when to go (suspect a lie - see above about obvious holding)
9/10 times he does then use the toilet after soiling incident.
Always had a dribble in his pants as he leaves it to the last minute to wee.
Lately this has been more than a dribble to the point of full wet patches on his trousers.
He seems unconcerned by this and will 'happily' go about his day wet or even soiled!?!?
Refusing to eat meals more and more and chooses to graze.
Claims he is tired or he has had enough when eating.
My GP did say last year that at this point in the year, just before starting school, there would be a set-back. This may be it, I don't know! I have no idea how to handle this for the best. We are all getting very frustrated by it. I am concerned with how school will deal with it. He has no EHP in place and not even sure if he is eligible for one.
I am going to make an appointment with the GP but worry I will be laughed off because I am not even sure WHAT the GP can do!
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Soiling, wetting and not eating! Sigh!
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bangingmyheadoffabrickwall · 27/07/2016 22:06
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