Hi
In short.........au pair of my 2 mindees is not happy as she's doing more hours than agreed, parents go off skiing and leave her to make beds for b&b guests, look after kids longer etc on her day off. Even weekends she's asked 'can you just this that and the other' and she has got friends and a life of her own!!!
I really feel for this girl. She's only 19 and really is working hard. Mum did mention at their meeting that she could do extra hours for extra money but au pair hasn't heard anything about the extra money and feels awkward about asking.
I've just had an email from her asking if she could come at 4.30 instead of 5 (early pickup anyway due to baby needing injections) as she would like a chat and really needs some support.
Now as much as I have my opinion and know what I'd say if I was her friend, I'm worried about what I say because of the parents using my services too.
So, what would you do? Don't want to ignore this poor girl.
Thanks
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CM Club - AU PAIR coming at 4.30pm and wants a chat and some support........help me know what to say/not to say..............
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looneytune · 22/03/2007 15:13
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