Not (really) his fault, although he could have got there if he hadn't made a decision which slowed him down. He left me in labour at home at 9am and got to me at hospital as they were cutting the cord at 1.15 pm. I tried not to tell him I was upset with him but it came out a few weeks ago, I cried, he was sorry blah blah. Thing is, although I was fine without him (straightforward labour etc) I am still so sad he missed it. Not even for him but because he didn't see me labour IYSWIM? He left me when the contractions were manageable and found me with a baby. He's from another country and has never been exposed to the idea of labour being as hard as it is (women's business) and has never seen an accurate representation on screen - he saw my fanjo after so he knows but at the same time he doesn't know and I feel a bit like he doesn't appreciate what I went through. He's not blase but...I hear about other women being bought gifts, etc etc, and I think he expected me to take it in my stride (which I did - I do) but I wish he had seen how hard it was. I'm being silly but I don't know when this will go away DS is 6.5 weeks by the way.
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I'm still so sad my DH missed the birth
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ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 29/10/2008 12:42
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