So, due in 7 weeks and really starting to worry now. I know there have probably been millions of other posts identical to this but I could really do with some reassurance!
When I had my daughter, 3.5 yrs ago, I managed 23 hours of labour before losing control and demanding an epidural. I did eventually get one but the midwives did all they could to talk me out of it.
I ended up having my daughter after 32 hours of labour and was left feeling in shock.
I was shocked for 2 reasons - how
long it took (!) and just how much it hurt. This may sound naive but, having attended a course of antenatal classes beforehand, I felt like nothing/nobody had prepared me!
I never told many people this but for around 6 months after the birth I would have flashbacks before going to sleep at night. I would have a flashback of my legs scrambling up the hospital bed and screaming for an epidural!
Sorry if this all sounds a bit dramatic - I'm just being completely honest!
If anyone can offer any advice or words of comfort, please feel free to comment!
I've contemplated ordering myself a hypnobirthing book but, being a very black and white kind of person, I just can't see me buying into it!
Thank you in advance! xxxx
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2nd baby and scared....
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Teddypom · 15/01/2016 17:38
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