As of an hour ago, I was booked into the Ascot Birth Centre at Heatherwood Hospital to give birth - EDD 3 December. It was lovely and we really liked it, did their free hypnobirthing course the last two Sundays with a fantastic midwife there, etc.
I had thought about a homebirth previously because I am apparently low risk, we are only 3 miles from the hospital I would be transferred to in case of any complications, but dismissed it as we live on the third floor with no lift and also it's my first pregnancy so I thought, who knows how this might go...
Anyway - email this morning informed us that Ascot Birth Centre is closed with immediate effect I really hope all the midwives and other staff will be redeployed and there will be no redundancies. The email said that if we were candidates for the Birth Centre, we were candidates for home births and would we consider having one.
Anyway we talked and decided that if we could resolve three things we would go for it:
- The third floor walk-up - could this be an issue if I had to be transferred to hospital? Does it happen on a stretcher? We managed to get a four seater sofa up the stairs no problem when we moved in and though I am not yet the size of a sofa I feel like I may be by the time I am full-term...but a stretcher might be difficult.
- Neighbours - we are doing hypnobirthing so with luck it will be calm and relaxed but who knows what it will be like on the day. We can hear our downstairs neighbour playing music, for example, so the soundproofing isn't great - any advice on how to handle this?
- First birth - I have no idea what it will be like and what my pain threshold will be. I think I will also have to keep quiet about this to my family (who luckily all live abroad) as they will absolutely freak out - my mother had two c-sections as apparently my brother and I were too large and she is convinced it will happen to me as well. And then out of loyalty we won't be able to tell PILs either as if we told one set of parents but not the other and it came out later there would be a shitstorm of royal proportions.
Sorry for the tome. Any advice? (Obv I will talk this over with my midwife too but my next appointment isn't for another 2 weeks.)