At school mostly. It seems to be mainly through silly things (ie forgetting a school book then, oopsy here it is in my bag! That kind of thing. It seems to be fear of 'doing wrong' or getting into trouble. Now I was like this at school but this was in ye olden days when the teachers could belt you (and you'd get hell at home for being in trouble).
It's a new school. Everyone is lovely - no scary teachers. Never had a scary teacher, or actually ever been scared by one (he used to march into his old Heads office to have a chat, or tell him it was about time he had a fire drill - so not exactly lacking in confidence).
I have told him until I'm blue in the face not to cry in front of the other kids - they are getting to the age when he will get bullied for being a cry-baby or mammas-boy. He understands, agrees... then the teacher pulls me aside 'oh mrs nice, niceboy got a little upset today...'.
I just don't know what to do.
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Child mental health
9 year old crying - what do you do?
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nicename · 24/09/2013 19:18
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