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Get advice and support with infant feeding from other users here.

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Get advice and support with infant feeding from other users here.

Infant feeding

I don't want to give up Bfeeding, But I don't know what to do..

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sparklygothkat · 16/10/2007 21:22

As many of you know, I had my second son 3 weeks ago at 33+5 weeks. I was expressing for 10 days till he came home and have been fully BF-ing since. Callum is not gaining weight, in fact he has now lost weight, and weighs less than when he left SCBU and still isn't back to his birth weight.

SCBU nurse came yesterday and re-inserted his feeding tube, because she wasn't happy with his weight. She knows that he is getting my milk as when she inserted the tube, milk came back up it. I just don't know what to do. I have Bf all my kids and I love the closeness it gives. I feels so sad

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hellnats · 19/10/2007 22:01

great news!

sparklygothkat · 19/10/2007 20:58

I think the SCBU nurse thought it would be easier for us to have the tube, rather than the cup, as its quite hectic here at times

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mears · 19/10/2007 13:31

That's great news.

Out of interest - why does he have a tube instead of being cupfed for top-ups?

sparklygothkat · 18/10/2007 22:35

lol

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Elasticwoman · 18/10/2007 21:58

Oh I see, sparkly.

sparklygothkat · 18/10/2007 21:55

lol she wasn't complaining, she was just as excited as me when the scales flashed to 1.99kg, she was just explaining to me as to why he wasn't gaining before.

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Elasticwoman · 18/10/2007 21:47

Excellent news - can't see what the hv is complaining about. 2.5 oz must be a pretty hefty proportion of baby's total weight and it's going in the right direction now.

sparklygothkat · 18/10/2007 21:03

well he put on 2 1/2oz!! the tube has to stay in site till he is feeding better, HV said that he was only feeding enough to keep himself going but not enough to put on weight, so until he is strong enough to take more milk, we must keep doing the top ups. But fingers crossed i can keep my supply going with feeding and pumping.

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mears · 18/10/2007 12:07

Is today weigh day? If so, fingers crossed

moondog · 16/10/2007 23:29

you're doing great sgk and giving him exactly what he needs

xxxx

sparklygothkat · 16/10/2007 23:19

thanks everyone, i know i can do this now as long as i have support

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forgottenfreetime · 16/10/2007 23:16

Lending you support SGK. My ds was born at 36 weeks so not as early as your son but he was really slow to get into feeding and had jaundice, low blood sugars etc etc. He had EBM top ups for two weeks and eventually was back to birth weight. He then gained weight really slowly and crawled along the bottom of the graph ... BUT at 6 months he had a massive growth spurt and got to the 75th percentile. Give it time your baby was even earlier and will take longer to get back to birth weight and then pick up. Have confidence in your own gut feelings.

slimbyxmas · 16/10/2007 23:01

I know our bodies and our babies are amazng It is soo good that you have exprience of little early babies too! Callum picked is mum and dad carefully me thinks.

sparklygothkat · 16/10/2007 22:57

I never knew that, I know that Dd1 (who was a 31 weeker) put on weight very fast..

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sparklygothkat · 16/10/2007 22:56

and ov. you lot on here!!

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slimbyxmas · 16/10/2007 22:56

I know, its so lovely when people make unhelpful comments!! Remember you are an experienced mum, and you are the expert on your children, little Callum may need expressed milk top ups after feeds for a few days but that really will be all... Once the action of feeding does not tire him as much he will be just like any other BF baby, feeding on demand and putting weight on day by day. Your milk is just what he needs, it is perfectly designed just for him. Did you know that breastmilk of mums that deliver early is actually richer than breastmilk of mums who deliver at term! How clever is nature!!

sparklygothkat · 16/10/2007 22:55

lol CSWS!! Misdee, lisad123 and DH are the only ones who are fully supporting me.

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CantSleepWontSleep · 16/10/2007 22:52

I could knock on your door and tell you in RL that it's just fantastic for him if that would make you feel better .

IamDaisy · 16/10/2007 22:51

SGK, I've got no experience, but just wanted to lend my support, and say what a wonderful job you are doing and that I hope you continue to get good support.

xx

sparklygothkat · 16/10/2007 22:50

doesn't help when people in RL keep telling me that my milk is ov. not enough and I shuld bottle feed him

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slimbyxmas · 16/10/2007 22:44

Thats great, you sound like a lovely family, Callum is a very lucky boy. Just as mears said, have faith, Callum will start to gain soon and I am sure you will be feeding him for a long time. It is so normal for us all to have wobbles at times, your instinct is telling you that BF him is the best so feel good about going with it.

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hellnats · 16/10/2007 22:40

thats a shame - would love to meet you - properly i mean! lol

Sounds like you are doing a great job - sparklygothkat! - sorry dont have any advice to give but loads on here do - I wouldnt have got this far (8 months) without mumsnet!

sparklygothkat · 16/10/2007 22:38

DH is here. We are fulltime carers for the older 2, who are disabled. The kids are very good and let me feed Callum without hassles

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mears · 16/10/2007 22:38

hellnats - sorry I won't be going as am already going to another night out.

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