I have an 8 day old and desperately want to breastfeed. We seemed to start well, everyone in hospital saying how great the latch was. It got very very sore and I knew he wasn't getting much, he wasn't swallowing anything. A lactation consultant helped and diagnosed tongue tie. Got this snipped and first feed after was amazing - I could tell he was swallowing. This then went afterwards and we were back to the start with struggling to latch. His jaundice is still really bad and I have to top up with formula to make sure he is getting enough to try and shift it.
I know his tie is still healing but I find it so hard to latch him on well. My boobs are really far apart and the nipples point off to the side so the 'easy' cradle nose to nose thing doesn't work for me. On the right I can do rugby hold, baby is very long so is wrapped all the way around me and I still find latching hard as his mouth doesn't open very wide.
This postion on the left feels impossible to get it all lined up and his mouth to open wide enough. I really hate this position. I've tried laidback feeding and the poor thing just can't get attached and it upsets me to see him rooting so hard.
Also when he is on he barely swallows. I don't think I am letting milk down.
However with a lot of support at s bf drop in he latched well and obviously drank for 30 mins. I think at home I am to anxious to do it properly. Which doesn't help let down! All advice I've seen is to pump and try expressed milk while we learn but I can't pump more than a few drops. Again to anxious to let down?
I just don't know where to turn now. I think I can do this but seemingly not without help! I'm so upset about giving him formula but I am deseparate for him to feed well. If his jaundice doesn't improve by next week I'll be back in hopsital with him. He is doing wet nappies but has only done two poos since all his meconium came out in hospital.
One positive is midwives are ok with his weight loss so far. Any advice would be so appreciated!
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Bad jaundice, tongue tie, difficult latch and awkward boobs!
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Shantotto · 01/08/2015 10:47
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