I love breastfeeding and so does my daughter. It is just the most amazing thing I have ever experienced. I've had the comments about her 'not needing it', 'it might just be a comfort thing', 'when will you stop', 'there is no benefit to it' comments from a range of people - in-laws, friends DOCTORS and other health professionals and on one occasion when he was feeling particularly grumpy my husband. I have kept up my resilience and ignored it.
However, I have one area of feeding that I still swing wildly between two views on. She still wakes at about 11:00 and about 5/6:00 and I still feed her. Only for about 10 mins but on both boobs - a full feed. On occasion she goes without the 11:00 which is lovely for me but generally that is her pattern. About this I go between a) thinking I don't mind, its not for long, I am missing out on feeding her during the day because I am at work and I enjoy it and she will probably grow out of it to b) she needs to sleep through, she isn't settling herself, she doesn't need it... lets sleep train or some other technique it out of her.
She settles herself when she goes to sleep in the evening and for all her naps so she can do it. I also know that she does sometimes wake in between these times and settles herself alone...
Anyone else facing these dilemmas?? Have you felt similarly? Is there benefits to 'extended breastfeeding'? What are they so I can fire them back at people!!
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breastfeeding a 14 month old
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ljw777 · 13/07/2011 21:55
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