Thansk for the new thread Jer, as there's some room left here still thought I'd go some way towards filling up this one first though!
MrsMN2 sounds like a lovely day! I'm sure I would've been blubbing too in my current hormonal state!
Just wanted to say quickly Jasmine that I asked my Mum to be at my labour, and then changed my mind and decided she would stress me out! I told her that I didn't want her seeing me in pain, and me and dp had decided we wanted it to be a shared experience just for the two of us. I think she was secretly relieved, but a bit put out, but it didn't affect our relationship at all, and she was first down the hospital the next day!
Supersunny don't worry too much about breastfeeding - it can be painful for some women, but it is not a given, and I think with most women it isn't painful for all that long. Also, there is lots of support available if you do have problems, as I think most cases when it is painful is because the baby is not latching on properly, and this can be solved with a few little adjustments and some guidance. There are of course women who suffer from masititis or thrush, and I know they can be horrible, but don't let the chance of that happening to you put you off!
I was very lucky and did not have problems with breastfeeding ds, although it was sometimes painful if I missed a feed or was late for a feed and got full up as it were, but a bit of expressing usually sorted that out. I found it very exhausting sometimes as my ds was a little piglet fed very well, so I weaned him completely when I returned to work when he was 8 months old, as I couldn't cope with both together. Breastfeeding was one of the most amazing experiences of my life, and I hated stopping. There were downsides too, such as feeling like a heifer at times, tiredness when he was having a growth spurt, but overall a really positive experience. Not to mention, of course, how many calories it uses up .
PS - good tip - Lanisoh nipple cream to prevent / heal sore, cracked nipples. It is one of the more expensive brands, but is miracle cream and does a much better job than the rest. It lasts for ages as well. You have to remove most of them before feeding as well, but this one you can leave on.
Had a really tough day yesterday, was sooooo tired! I was slumped on the sofa til 2pm and my poor ds had to make do with his toys and Cbeebies. I then managed to get out of the house and drive him to the park near where dp works, and call dp and ask if he could leave work early and save me! When dp turned up I had to lie down on the grass by the swings! I am going to go and get a bloodtest for low iron, as I have never known exhaustion like yesterday! Feeling a bit better today though...