Hi all.
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I have a 3 year old with my partner who also has an 11 year old from a previous relationship, who we have on weekends, take on holiday etc etc.
on Sunday we got the awful news that her mum (who she absolutely worships) passed away very suddenly. My step daughter was with us at the time and we had the terrible job of telling her. Naturally she was devastated and cried for an hour and since then it’s like it hasn’t happened. She is obviously living with us and we don’t want to push her into talking about it but I’m at a loss as to what I can do to help her. I’ve been with her dad since she was 4 and we have a great relationship and I just want to help but we are getting nothing from her at all.
We ask how she is and she just says she’s fine. We have asked if there is anything we can get her from her mums house and she says no. We just don’t know what to do. We don’t want her to think she can’t talk about her feelings or talk about her mum.
I just don’t I what we should be expecting or doing for her and we don’t want to make her feel like she should be reacting in certain way. We are just being guided by her at the minute.
I am going to contact child bereavement Charities but at the moment she is with us constantly and I don’t want to do it in front of her.
any advise would be greatly appreciated.
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Paulaem · 22/06/2022 08:13
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