Any advice please?
DD aged 2.5 had been moderately ill for a week before she was admitted to hospital as an emergency. She was kept in for 3 days, and has been back 4 times for repeated blood tests, physical examinations and one test under general anaesthetic. We are awaiting tests results, which could potentially be very serious.
I can understand she is pretty fed up but I am struggling to control her behaviour. She normally thrives on routine, which has been skewed. She is usually best friends with DS (4yo) but they just seem to be fighting - she has been the aggressor. I have been the one with her most of the time, and the worst of it is directed at me (I accept I am stressed and tired and less tolerant).
As far as the Drs are aware, she does not seem to be in pain. She is almost back to normal for eating etc. Bit sleepier. But both frequency and duration of tantrums have increased on an epic scale. E.g. she got hysterical today during an attempted examination of her tummy. Although the Drs are great, she got herself so worked up she was thrashing around on the floor, kicking, biting, screaming the place down to the point we had to resrain her to stop her hurting herself. It took her a good hour to calm down.
We've been honest with her, as far as she understands, about what is going on. So help me out here - do you have experience of this? Just muddle through until we know diagnosis, ignore it or discipline her? We are normally pretty consistent in terms of what behaviour is acceptable, how many warnings, what is an immediate time out etc. It seems a bit mean when I know she is acting out because she is out of sorts. But likewise, she can play it up a bit (temper and tears are usually on off/on switch with her). I don't want us reacting in a different way to normal, because she is ill, to unsettle her more.
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AWFUL behaviour in DD 2.5yo after illness/hospital stay
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stripeybumpsmum · 17/05/2010 20:50
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