Anyone got any suggestions? I have a five year old boy (nearly 6) and 3 year old girl who are generally reasonably well behaved, however ever since my little boy was young he misbehaves when we have visitors, and we have had a particuarly bad day with visitors today.Myself and my husband realise its probably something that we are doing wrong but cannot understand what. I know children do often misbehave with visitors but this has gone on for a long time and quite extreme of his usual behaviour. I have thought about all the things such as is he jealous of having someone share his attention or does he feel left and and I have tried all sorts of different tactics. I have tried talking to him about his behaviour before the visitors arrive, and I have also tried ignoring the bad behaviour and praising the good but nothing seems to work. Today he spent most of the time in his room because he was creating such a bad atmosphere, and I had run out of ideas what to do. Usually use naughty step but doesn't work with visitors around as causes upset to eveyone else when he is whaling on the step. Its not that he does anything really bad but he is rude and hurts his sister, doesn;t listen or do as we say and always causes a fuss regarding meals times when we have visitors. It pust me of having visitors and I don't know what else to try is the answer staring me in the face and I can't see. suggestions very welcome,
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