I am not a massive fan of labels, but I have recently started to wonder if my 5 year old son might have ADHD. He has always been a bit hyper, especially when tired, but I always figured that all little boys are a bit hyper! However, i was reserching a couple of others things that pointed me in this direction:
He is very impulsive, frequently acting without thinking - often things like lashing out with a pinch if he is upset by someone. We have a lot of this at school.
Very emotional - cries and feels things intensely. This can be from someone saying they don't want to play, to me telling him we aren't doing something that day to bring told to get dressed.
Very sensitive to fabrics - we sometimes have meltdowns about wearing uncomfortable clothes or uniform with him saying "I can't do it, I can't do it!" Not sensitive to touch in general (he is very cuddly) or to pain (a grazed knee etc won't phase him).
In addition to the above, he rarely sits still. On the sofa he will want to climb it, hang upside down, shift position frequently. When he sits to eat dinner he will swing his legs lots. He can and does stop when I tell him to, it it often starts up again. None of the movements are like a twitch or particularly repetitive, he just seems to move all the time! If he is very tired he will sometimes just flop on the sofa and be fairly still I guess.
Having said all this, he will concentrate on stuff he likes, he likes sitting and listening to stories (although he will often try to fiddle with something) he is hugely empathetic and he loves being around people (which is why I don't feel he is on the Autisitc spectrum).
Does he sound like a normal little boy, (perhaps a little emotionally immature for his age) or is there something there I should be keeping an eye on? Thanks for reading - constructive comments only please! X
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ADHD or just normal 5 year old behaviour?
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Aries456 · 15/08/2019 07:39
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