My daughter (first child) will be three in November and is very willful and defiant at the moment. I understand that this is normal behavior for her age and am trying to be patient. However, since her sister was born in May, she has been very violent towards her and regularly takes any opportunity when I'm not looking to bite her (she doesn't bite any other children). I guess the reason she does this is that she is jealous and feeling displaced but I can't do more to make her feel loved. My husband works long hours so it is mostly just me and the girls. This means finding time for alone time with her is hard. I try to give her as much attention as possible, but the fact is I can't possibly give her the constant attention she had before her sister was born. At the moment, when she bites we try to keep calm and send her to her room, explaining that "biting hurts" and "we do not bite". However, this is having no effect. I've tried asked why she does it but she can't offer any explanation-i think she's still too young. Please does anyone have any more ideas?
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