This feels like such an odd problem I don't know if anyone will have been there. I've just searched the archives and can't find anything similar! Would welcome any opinions!
My DS is in most ways lovely (!) but incredibly stubborn and set in his ways. When he gets an idea in his head there's no budging it. He doesn't seem to particularly like winter or cold weather (fair enough) and just wants to stay inside and play with his toys. This has become apparent over the last month or so as it's got properly cold.
I go totally mad without enough fresh air and exercise and I think he's the same really - in nice weather we would have to go out once a day for both our sanities' sake but in winter he just doesn't want to do anything - he's perfectly happy playing at home, 'helping' me do jobs and playing with his toys. I feel like he's got me under house arrest because he just won't play ball. If I take him to the park he won't get out of the car, or walk.
I'm worried that he isn't really getting enough exercise/burning off enough energy - or really being stimulated enough with different experiences! But he just doesn't want to do anything. When it isn't freezing I think it's nice to just go for a stroll but he won't even do that.
Would you force it? Do you think this is a bad thing? I feel like the whole winter is stretching ahead and I'm going to be stuck indoors!!
(Should probably add that I work 3 days p/w so he spends 2 full days in nursery and 1 with grandparents - perhaps he just wants to enjoy being at home on his days 'off'... but in summer he was quite happy to be taken out, despite that!)
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3yo doesn't want to go anywhere in winter
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PenelopeChipShop · 09/12/2015 20:48
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