My DS is coming up for two at the end of this month. Although he can be stubborn and wilful, he is for the most part an agreeable, bright, talkative little guy who has always been really well behaved.
He has suddenly started saying "no" to a lot of things, last night he was up for an hour and a half screaming for me and wanting to go downstairs (I didn't let him), he didn't want to go to nursery today and had lots of tears getting him ready this morning, I came home late from work today (I am a teacher and had Parents Evening) to be told that he has been hitting and pushing other children at nursery, he was defiant to the other members of staff and deliberately waited for the staff to be looking whilst throwing his food and cutlery on the floor. This is very unlike him as he loves his food and has always been a great sleeper and eater until now.
He's got his final two teeth coming through, but teething has never been a trigger for naughty behaviour before. We moved him to a big boy bed three nights ago but he was fine with it - he literally just laid down, snuggled up and went to sleep. We also had his cousin (9months old) over for the weekend as a favour to my DSIL, and although my DS was fine and enjoyed his company for the first day, he was confused and less tolerant the next day. Not sure if any of those things might be bothering him.
Has anyone else been through anything like this when their DCs were around this age? What did you do? Is there a way to help him deal with his feelings? Currently feeling like a total failure, I spend all my time helping other people's children and making a total cock up of my own, I feel like I'm failing him. Honestly could cry. Anyone help me, please.
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phoenixrose314 · 03/03/2015 21:29
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