DS2 is 11 months old and has always been very high maintenance. I know most babies go through difficult phases, teething, separation anxiety etc but this is more than that. It's constant misery really. He'll be setted, happy playing for a few minutes but then I dare to move or cough or make eye contact and he begins to whinge.
He cries in the pushchair and wants to be carried which is just not always possible when I have a 5 year old too, also he weighs too much to carry him endlessly.
It's not just clinginess, he seems just generally whingy whatever we do. He acts like an over tired baby yet he has 2 naps a day both over an hour long and sleeps through 12 hours a night (I know I am lucky for that!) ...but the days just seem endless. Getting anything done is impossible and I do feel terribly guilty that my older son is just not getting any time with us in the way he did. we are getting more stressed as time goes on which I know doesn't help but we both thought as we approached his 1st birthday it would get better but it's just not!
I am sick of the comments from the parents outside the school always saying how grumpy DS2 is, 'oh he's crying again?' 'oooh what has your mummy done to you this time??' 'Poor baby he never seems happy, is he hungry?' Grrrrr! He eats 3 meals a day, still has 4 milk feeds a day and food doesn't distract him when he's whinging so it's not hunger! He just seems contantly grumpy and irritable.
We've had him at the doctors and tried reflux medication incase it was silent reflux but no change. Been dairy free since he was 12 weeks old as we were desperate but still the crying went on. I took him to a cranial osteopath when he was 4 months old behind DH's back as I was just completely desperate and DH was very sceptical and said it was a waste of money and in our case sadly after 3 sessions it was a complete waste.
What can I do to help him?
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My 11 month old cries/ whinges constantly! What else can I do???
CryBaby2305 · 30/11/2012 16:35
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