My dd can be a typical 9yo - works well at school, great with her friends on a one to one basis, sometimes lovely with her younger siblings, very competitive with dd2.
She's had long term speech problems, and was 8 before she was discharged by her SALT. I think this has really affected her confidence, as she is very insecure especially in her friendships.
My main worry is that she just doesn't seem to know how to behave in normal social situations. She almost makes too much effort to look cool, and ends up looking a bit silly. She'll often start conversations with people she doesn't know particularly well, but puts on strange mannerisms, and starts talking rubbish. Often they ( especially children) will just move away or ignore her, but she doesn't pick up on it and just continues her speech.
I have wondered if she is on the AS spectrum, but a lot of the signs ive read about don't really tie in with her. Her teachers have never commented on this, but I know that she is quite studious at school, and more serious so I'm not sure if they have seen much of this side of her.
I can't decide whether to specifically discuss with her what body language to look out for, when you're talking to someone, or whether to train her with set sentences to say in everyday situations. I dont want to ruin her selfconfidence further though.I suspect a lot is just nerves, but I can't help thinking there is more to it.
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Advice please on how to help my 9yo dd.
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Sluginthejam · 01/11/2012 14:14
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