Hi, my 5.5 year old daughter has a developmental delay and speech problems. She is always very sociable with adults and talks to strangers all the time. She gets quite obsesive about people and won't forget the names of students we've had from years ago. She has one friend at school, but generally dosn't socialise much with the other children. She likes one to one attention, and if she's with a group, either at school or in the park, she'll either play on her own or with a much younger child. She loves babys and toddlers.
How can I encourage her to be more sociable with other children ?
When we have her best friend around to play, they seem to have loads of fun, then Lucy's suddenly had enough and shuts herself in her roon and refuses to play with her friend. At birthday partys she also does this. Sometimes, she tries to go to sleep under a table or in a bedroom, which can be embarassing. It's like it's just too much for her to cope with and she wants to shut herself away. She still looks forward to partys though.
When she's with us and other adults, she is such a charactor. No one would ever think she had any problems socialising in school etc. Strangers always make comments such as "She sounds happy" or "you're not shy are you?" She sings to herself a lot of the time, even in public. I think she likes the attention of adults.
I'm really not sure how I can help her with her socialisation. I'm also not sure if I should try to curb this fixation with certain people? At the moment it's my MIL's student. She won't leave her alone. The student does encourage this and feeds her sweets without me knowing. When she's fixated on someone, that's all she'll talk about. She'll role play being that person, then I'll have to play being that person. She gets very distressed if you won't play the game. She'll cry and say "I want her to be my mummy, not you!!"
I don't think it's healthy really.
I'd be greatful of any advice. thanks
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My daughter has some strange social problems, can anyone shed any light on this ?
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mummyloveslucy · 23/07/2010 12:57
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