I recently had my first child and it has been a hard few years leading up to his birth. First I lost my Father and then my Mother and Sister were seriously ill. My Brother had a pulmonary embolism the weekend before I went into labour and this meant my Mum was up and down the A1 like a yo-yo.
My Number 1 sister-in-law has now taken it upon herself to cry to my Mum about how I have taken to Motherhood like a duck to water - what she doesn't realise is that I run round the house doing all the chores like a mad thing as soon as DS falls asleep. I run my house like a military operation - I manage on 4-6 hours of sleep as when I was in the military this is the most I would get a night, this is why I can cope! Am I being unreasonable that I am very angry that she can guilt trip me into feeling bad for her? She had such a tough time and we helped her every weekend with her DD's from birth and I do feel bad that she does not enjoy being a Mum as much as I do and I try to support her but what else can I do?
My Number 2 sister-in-law is pushing all my buttons - she insists on taking her children round to my mother-in-laws every day even if they are ill - resulting in the fact my mother-in-law didn't see my DS for 3 weeks after we bought him home from the hospital for fear of passing on germs. Even when the mother-in-law points this out to said daughter she doesn't take a blind bit of notice! I would like some time to myself which my mother-in-law has offered to do for me each week - even if it is just for me to be able to do the ironing without seeing to DS every 5 minutes. Am i being unreasonable to be so annoyed at Number 2 sister-in-law?
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To feel like my two sister-in-laws are taking the proverbial?
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WildheartSarah · 05/11/2009 11:08
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