Can I add Kings College Hospital in London to the name and shame idea?
This major London teaching hospital told my Nan there were no beds avilable to her when her GP rang to obtain help and she was dying of cancer. A week later she was taken to A&E where she lay on a trolley in admissions for 7 hours - my 76 year old Grandad went out to buy water for her as he couldn't get staff to supply her with a drink. She was then sent home as there were no beds.
Two weeks later she was again in tremendous pain and deep distress - she was 78 years old. Again, there were no beds at Kings although they happily found her one in the private ward, which thank god my family were able to afford. Then she was transferred to the NHS ward of the sister hospital to Kings.
She stayed there a week, coming home to pass away after finding one nurse particularly unkind - and please believe me my Nanny was NEVER the complaining type, loved by all and finding the best in everyone. In 29 years I never heard her complain of anyone before or raise her voice.
This was not before a nurse at the hospital said that she was dying - we knew this but had kept it from Nanny. When my family looked askance at the nurse she just shrugged and said, "oh well, she must know she is anyway" IN FRONT OF MY NANNY!
I feel for you Fluffy, I hope that the advice you have been given will help and that by standing up for those in ill health and badly treated by our hospitals we can change things for the better.
Wishing your Mum all the very, very best.