Today my son's school friend, Reece, came round at about 6pm and asked if my son could come out and play.
Thing is my son is just 6, and he's on the autistic spectrum and I don't just let him play out, and his friend has unspecified learning difficulties and they go to the same unit. I don't know where Reece lives and I don't know his mum's name or phone number or anything. I invited him in instead, and we had a very lively hour with him, mostly a great time, but he was rummaging in all the cupboards and playing with my things as well as theirs and I felt really weird the whole time.
I asked him if his mum was coming for him and he said no, he was going home by himself (he came on his bike). I asked him if he needed taking home and he said no again, he was fine on his bike.
Well, he went off at seven when my two had their bath, and I've been really worried ever since. I know I should have taken him home, and it occured to me after that maybe his mum didn't even know he had gone out - maybe he slipped away? But I can't ring her to ask. I think I fucked up. But what if it was all genuine, and she really let him come unexpectedly to my house, without her, to play? He knows where we live because the boys go in the same taxi to their unit, so we see him every school day in the car.
I'm not happy with how I handled it, but I'm quite unhappy with her if she knowingly put me in that position too.
My kids play in the garden, or I take them to the park, because one's four, and one's autistic - they don't just ... roam around!
But assuming Reece's mum allowed this, is she under-protective or am I over-protective? I can't get my head round it really.
What do you all think?
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RedCharityBonney · 10/07/2009 22:24
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