I have 2 friends at dd1 schol. One friend I have known on and off for 10 years, will call her Tee. Other friend I have known for just over a year, call her Gem.
Now we all have children the same age plus me and Gem have one more. We all walk to school together, and somedays me and Tee share the school run to give each other a break. Tee's DS and Gems DD have a habit of winding each other up. BUT while Gems DD will wind him up with words, Tee's son will physically hit, punch & kick.
Well things have been difficult for a while and Tee often says Gem doesnt tell her DD off enough, but of im being honest Tee's son often says she is saying things that she isnt.
Well today, I was picking up Tee's DS from school and walking hone with another friend who's DS is in the same year. Well friend was having a bad day, and i was feeling naff and full of cold. I invited friend for cuppa at mine to chat, knowing her ds and my dd play nicely. Tee's ds asked if he could come and i nicely said "not today sweetie but you can come and play another day".
Tonight I recieve a text from Tee saying, her son was very upset that he wasnt invited round today and Gem's DD was, especially as he asked too!!! also said that Gems dd had said she was coming round to wind him up(she didnt)
I am so , one that her ds lied as Gems dd wasnt invited and wasnt winding him up. two that she has the cheek to say because he asked he should have come. and 3 that she had the cheek to text me.
Im tempted to suggest we stop walking the kids together, or am i over reacting?
AIBU?
to think my friend is being unreasonable!!
lisad123 · 07/10/2008 22:03
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