I think this may be my first AIBU thread - and on a Monday morning too...

[SorenLorensen]

AIBU to think a T-shirt which reads...

"GOOD MANNERS COST FUCK ALL, DICKHEAD"

is not perhaps the most appropriate attire to wear to take your kids to primary school in the morning?

One of the Dads at ds2's primary school thinks it is.

[purpleduck]

I don't like t-shirts like that (unless you are at a festival...)

But I do like this hee hee

[TheNaughtiestGirlKeepsaSecret]

That's so stupid. Even my dc aged 6 could try and sound it out. And yeah, next question for ME not the guy in the stupid t-shirt would be "what's a dickhead?".

Oh some people just want to be 22 for the rest of their life.

[babymt]

My SIL's partner wore a tshirt on xmas day that had women with legs spread eagle on it (naked). The grannys weren't impressed but luckily all the kids were too young to work it out.

I didn't actually notice it but had I done I think I would've told him it was inappropriate.

Anyway YANBU and I'd mention it to someone to have a word with him.

[kslatts]

I think the t-shirt is completely inappropriate, but I don't really see what the school can do. The school has a responsibility of care but this is before school starts. At the school my dd's attend we wait in the playground until the bell goes so I guess the headteacher could insist a parent wearing an offensive t-shirt doesn't enter school property, but if this parent is standing on a street outside the school how would the headteacher stop the parent wearing whatever he likes?

[SorenLorensen]

When ds1 was little we saw a lorry parked at the side of the road with one of those sun strips at the top of the windscreen which read "Happiness is a Wet Pussy." That sparked off lots of debate "well, it just means the driver likes cats, darling." "Yes, but why would he like them to be wet, Mummy? Cats don't like being wet."

I really wanted to go back later and put a brick through the windscreen.

[GordonTheGopher]

When I was teaching I had a dad with explicit tattoos of naked women all over his arms. I think he was asked to cover up but rarely did so.

[Spidermama]

Horrible. It should be exclusively worn by dickheads in the student union bar. I would definitely complain.

[pushchair]

Once did a teaching placement during which the class photo was taken. It was only afterwards that a parent pointed out that one child,s T-shirt featured the word Bastard! Snotty teacher tried to blame me for not noticing but she was there at the time and in the photo.

[expatinscotland]

it's just ned behaviour to the max.

[SorenLorensen]

I'm not going to speak to the head - I know him fairly well by now and he wouldn't be interested.

[Janni]

You are so not being unreasonable.

Poor kid if that's what passes as humour in his home.

[SorenLorensen]

I live in nice leafy Cheshire (well, my bit's not so nice...but still Cheshire )

[VictorianSqualor]

[FluffyMummy123]

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[SlartyBartFast]

if the school sent a letter the culprits would be saying

its a free country for fuck's sake!!

[SlartyBartFast]

what could/would the school do though?

[expatinscotland]

that would go over like a lead balloon around here.

where do these folks even find these clothes.

[expatinscotland]

that would go over like a lead balloon around here.

where do these folks even find these clothes.

[FluffyMummy123]

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[hecate]

Not appropriate at all. I can hear it now "What does 'dickhead' mean, mummy?" "what does 'fuck' mean, mummy?"

Not to mention that it's not even funny (oh haha my clothes tell someone off for having no manners, by swearing and insulting, how ironic of me ) and that clothes with 'funny' writings on them are naffola.

So inappropriate language and crimes against both humour and fashion.

[missblythe]

Dry humping! At school?!

[FluffyMummy123]

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