Exhausted in my relationship

[gabbyabr]

I just have one simple question.
So my partner and I were having a discussion and I explain to him that I'm tired and I feel like I'm stretched thin and I barely have time for myself anymore. His response to me was " that just means you can do more". That really upset me because I'm already doing so much. Is this how relationships are supposed to be? I feel like I've lost interest in all the things I use to love to do because I no longer have the time for it.

[RichTea90]

sorry to hear you feel like this - what’s the reason why you feel so stretched thin and exhausted? Could we have some context?

[MariaLuna]

He's not on your wavelength.

Time to be single,

I'm single. So much better than living your life with an asshole who does not treat you right!

[Akamai]

What a twat he is. I think you’ll feel better if you leave him.

What’s the housing situation, do you rent? Whose name is on tenancy?

Do you have kids?

Does he not pull his weight?

[ineedtostopbeingdramaticfirst]

Why don't you have time? Is it him? Work? Responsibilities?

His response was very dismissive . I would have felt hurt.

If you never get any time for yourself/down time you need to fix that or you are at risk of becoming depressed.