Hello there, I hope you are all well. I wanted to check if this is a regular thing in every household with a 7 year old please?
Our daughter wakes up after a lot of attempts, brushes and gets downstairs to have breakfast. Some days, it takes longer and she gets told it is not correct by me who is upstairs constantly reminding her to hurry up. Downstairs my husband will be making breakfast and if she is really late, she gets shouted at by him and he tends to stay angry at me and her for the rest of the morning.
I understand the angry part but I think that sulking for the rest of the morning for that cause is a bit too much. Most of his family sulks(sometimes for years, so I am not surprised he does that). I am thinking of better ways to handle it like getting her to sleep early etc. instead of constant fights everyday which definitely spoils the mood for me. I really want another child but the thought of arguments and fights really put me off.
Please share what mornings looks like in your households? Also, any good tips for us please? Thank you.
AIBU?
Child getting ready for school
Createausername1234 · 17/04/2024 10:48
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLCreateausername1234 · 17/04/2024 14:59
Thank you all..very valuable inputs..I was also thinking about changing bed time habits than upsetting her in the morning.
I remember growing up a loving environment. My parents never argued in front of us. My husbands' parents are constantly arguing to the point that father spends most days in front of TV and mother in the kitchen. They hardly talk. He tried therapy sessions, got some good advise, no much change. He seems to think about the situation very differently than how it actually happened, I don't know how to help him. Having said all this, if you meet this chap outside, he is the most kindest gentleman that will win you over! Anyway my rant is over, I am living with a hope that he will change someday.
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