DD is 8 and our family live very local so we see each other multiple times a week. My mum couldn’t give two shits about our teeth growing up - we was never encouraged to eat healthily, never shown how to brush our teeth properly - so as a result I have awful teeth which I’m now spending thousands of pounds fixing.
As a result of that I am very strict about DD’s teeth - I still brush them (she does have autism though and wouldn’t be able to do them properly on her own at this point in time), I don’t allow many sweets (only a small amount once per week as a treat), I only offer water and milk to drink etc. DD has fantastic teeth because of this.
My family know how I feel about the sweets and yet they continue to buy her loads and some of the worst kinds too - such as candy floss which is basically just sugar in a plastic pot - and they know I get annoyed because they say things like “oh I know you would hate this but I got it anyway!”. Of course, whenever they do buy stuff it goes unopened until they leave and then goes straight in the bin, but they often give it in front of DD and even though I’ve drilled into her what loads of sweets can do to her teeth etc and she often chooses healthier alternatives when offered anyway, she is still a child and doing that in front of her does cause temptation and then upset when they are chucked away.
I am starting to really believe that all the crappy E numbers and things in these sweets do affect her behaviour too and she copes a lot better autism wise when she doesn’t have them.
AIBU to send out a family text message saying that they are not to buy her anymore sweets (the sweets will be turned away at the front door if necessary) and that if they want to buy her a treat to buy healthier alternatives (like fruit for example that she absolutely adores - and yes I’m aware it’s still natural sugar so again that’s given in moderation).
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To be pissed off with family buying DD sweets all the time?!
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SENMUM95 · 28/03/2024 22:13
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