My lo is only 6 weeks but we would like her christened at 3 months.. we have close ties with a local restaurant and would want to hold a meal there afterwards. I have a small family and a big group of friends due to my family being up north etc and my dh has the opposite.
I would want my lo's grandparents, great grandparents, aunties and our close friends there as at the end of the day it is a celebration of her joining the church. My dh is very supportive although not religious but is important to me as my preist christened, confirmed, married us and buried my late father so to have him christen our first daughter would be very special.
However I have a feeling my inlaws may be less than impressed (and they will make no secret of this) if we don't invite the extended family which will consist of doubling the christening party from 20 to 40 people and although they are my dh aunties etc they will bear to little relation our lo.
Every family get together results in a massive piss up and I don't want this for such a special occassion, plus my family are very different and I don't want them to feel alientated which they have felt in the past when both sides of the family have met up.
What would you do? Plus I know money won't come into it, but we are looking at £25 a head all in and to be honest there is a stark difference between 20 and 40 guests!
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bluebell82 · 07/03/2008 16:27
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