My 14 year old DS is struggling a bit at secondary in English so we got him a tutor to get a bit of extra help on the premise that a bit of extra 1-1 support might give him a boost both in terms of skills and confidence.
I mentioned this at the parents eve to the teacher & they made it clear they were offended. I’d kind of asked about what we should focus on in the 1-1s- DS is a bit borderline grades wise & definitely needs a bit of help.
Genuinely didn’t mean to offend the teacher- in a big class, the kids just don’t get the 1-1 support they need & I really want DS to pass GSCE with a C grade.
is it a massive faux pas?
AIBU?
To ask if teachers get offended by extra tutoring
Upthebracket22 · 07/10/2022 12:06
Am I being unreasonable?
128 votes. Final results.
POLLIwanttoliveonamountain · 07/10/2022 15:13
because tutors [sometimes/often] have no idea of actual syllabus/ curriculum, haven't worked in a school, do not understand the grade system because they've never been part of moderation. And therefore can confuse.
Sinthie · 07/10/2022 12:27
Not at all - it’s nice to see parents and students taking the initiative rather than expecting teachers to do unpaid “boosters”, “interventions” and “support sessions” on their evenings and lunch breaks.
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alloalloallo · 07/10/2022 12:22
My daughter’s maths teacher at college is really offended by us finding a tutor.
My daughter has some disabilities as well as dyslexia and Dyscalculia and really struggles with processing and working memory.
She has failed her maths GCSE twice now (once at school and once at college) so we have a tutor once a week who consolidates everything that DD has done in her maths lessons that week.
The maths teacher at college was annoyed, and point blank refuses to let DD bring home any worksheets, her maths book or anything she’s done in class so the tutor can go over what she’s done.
alloalloallo · 07/10/2022 12:22
My daughter’s maths teacher at college is really offended by us finding a tutor.
My daughter has some disabilities as well as dyslexia and Dyscalculia and really struggles with processing and working memory.
She has failed her maths GCSE twice now (once at school and once at college) so we have a tutor once a week who consolidates everything that DD has done in her maths lessons that week.
The maths teacher at college was annoyed, and point blank refuses to let DD bring home any worksheets, her maths book or anything she’s done in class so the tutor can go over what she’s done.
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