DS is 6 and in year 1. Behaves impeccably in school, has extra support via his ehcp for his speech, listening and attention but really well behaved.
His behaviour at home is absolutely hideous. Swearing, hitting, constant screaming. Collected DD from her door on the way out of school and DS shoved a reception child flying.
I know full well DS wouldn't dare behave like this at school, so he very clearly can behave. So I've really pushed being even firmer with him as I can see he clearly can behave so it must be my parenting that is the issue. I don't have an issue accepting that but it just isn't working. For shoving the child earlier I made him hold my hands whilst I finished talking to DS's teacher. Then informed him for xx he was losing his after school tablet time. He then predictably kicked off re the loss of tablet time so once we were home I sent him to his room until he had calmed down. Dinner was 4pm and we spent 20 minutes after building some lego together as a bit of a chance to have a positive moment. It is now 5pm and he is running around incredibly boisterous again.
It is just constant and I am drained. His understanding isn't 100% so I approach him as a more recently turned 5.
How do you get even firmer to show that if they wouldn't do it at school, it also won't be tolerated at home? AIBU to know he can behave and to expect it here too?
AIBU?
To think if he can behave in school he can behave at home
bugsymalonemumof2 · 26/09/2022 17:10
Am I being unreasonable?
145 votes. Final results.
POLLBertieBotts · 26/09/2022 17:37
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lannistunut · 26/09/2022 17:59
I need him to hold it together just ten more minutes Why? Why do you need the ten minutes?
bugsymalonemumof2 · 26/09/2022 18:03
To collect his sister and somewhere he can run around. It's too crowded where her classroom is so I need to get him, get her and then there is a big heath he can run around on 30 seconds from the school gate. He ran in front of a car in the car park last week.
lannistunut · 26/09/2022 17:59
I need him to hold it together just ten more minutes Why? Why do you need the ten minutes?
bugsymalonemumof2 · 26/09/2022 18:03
To collect his sister and somewhere he can run around. It's too crowded where her classroom is so I need to get him, get her and then there is a big heath he can run around on 30 seconds from the school gate. He ran in front of a car in the car park last week.
lannistunut · 26/09/2022 17:59
I need him to hold it together just ten more minutes Why? Why do you need the ten minutes?
bugsymalonemumof2 · 26/09/2022 18:03
To collect his sister and somewhere he can run around. It's too crowded where her classroom is so I need to get him, get her and then there is a big heath he can run around on 30 seconds from the school gate. He ran in front of a car in the car park last week.
lannistunut · 26/09/2022 17:59
I need him to hold it together just ten more minutes Why? Why do you need the ten minutes?
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IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 26/09/2022 19:13
DS was very similar at the sane age; also had EHCP, on CAMHS waiting just.
The way his (trujy wonderful) teacher explained it to me - you know how you can have a tiresome and tiring day at work, but you are polite to your colleagues? Then you come home and snap at your family??, Well DS is just doing that.
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