Friend, has housecats and they done go out. He adores them. But...
Two females ages 2 to 3 form kittens, never vet registered and not netured or wormed or fleaded regularly.
Live in living room only which isn't that big, no scratch posts, beds or toys realy and place is very messy.
Fed 2 pouches between them a day and busicuits... If he can afford it often no biscuits end of month. Litter tray is frankly grim.. Can smell it and viably full of poo very often.
Is this neglect? I think it's borderline but he clearly cares about them. They got poorly and I pointed out needed worming and fleaing then got better.
AIBU?
Is this a bit neglectful (pets)
Pleaseaddcaffine · 19/09/2022 19:44
Am I being unreasonable?
146 votes. Final results.
POLLPleaseaddcaffine · 19/09/2022 20:01
They wee everywhere as not neturtered
Bemyclementine · 19/09/2022 20:35
The litter tray needs to have thecwee and poo picked out every single time they wee or poo. If he used the Cats best clumping litter, and used a litter scoop, he'd rarely need to actually clean the tray.
Grandeur · 19/09/2022 19:51
I hate when people don't allow their cats to go outdoors. Cats are natural roamers.
No scratch posts or toys means they're not getting any stimulation. And an inadequate diet on top Poor cats.
mumboss1984 · 19/09/2022 20:24
Some cats shouldn’t be outdoors. The breed we have is not known for being savvy outdoors so would likely get hit by a car very easily. We are having a catio built for her so she has outside access. She hates other cats anyway.
Pleaseaddcaffine · 19/09/2022 20:14
I have spoken to him about it several times, he seems to genuinly belive he cleans the litter tray every 4 days. No way he does. It mings. I mean takes your breath away mings
Brigante9 · 19/09/2022 20:30
I think you’re thinking of males who tend to mark territory if not neutered. As pp said, it’s more likely due to a full litter tray. Your mate does not care for his cats, he’s totally neglectful.
Pleaseaddcaffine · 19/09/2022 20:01
They wee everywhere as not neturtered
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Beamur · 19/09/2022 19:48
If they never go out, they probably don't need flea and worm treatment. Not neutering is risky in case they do get out.
Food and living conditions leave a bit to be desired though. They are probably bored and under exercised.
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